Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

What kind of lights would you like to use for your home decor?

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

I feel so attached and in love with a dead celebrity. My love for anyone else is overshadowed by my love for him. What does this mean?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !